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#7500187 - 01/16/14 10:30 AM How would you all react?
87ZCSi Offline
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I'm a pretty open minded guy I think.

So some of you know about my car getting hit, and all the reno's before I can sell the condo, and the divorce, etc. Well mom died too last week, what a ride that's been since there's been no documentation, no access to the home, unnamed children are listed as the executors, etc. Memorial is tonight, all planned by me, 3000 minutes talk time in 2 weeks fighting for rights. Anyway, so my sister is coming with her partner. When I met him, he's a tall fat truck driving guy. Pretty rugged, married to another woman. At my wedding they were fooling around and he was only supposed to be her ride because she didn't have a car. Now they have a kid together.









































He now is a "woman", who identifies as Annette, which happens to be our step mom's name. My sister is ok with this.



FUCK. SERIOUSLY!?!?!?!

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#7500199 - 01/16/14 10:35 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: 87ZCSi]
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I.............errrr...............um............


I'm sorry about your mom man, my condolences. As far as ^--- that up there, I'm at a loss.
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#7500206 - 01/16/14 10:36 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: 87ZCSi]
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Sorry about your mom \:\(
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#7500208 - 01/16/14 10:37 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Senor Eduardo_82]
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As for the other thing..... threesome?
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#7500219 - 01/16/14 10:40 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: LNXGUY]
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OMFG.
dude PLEASE dont lay down on the 401. If you need to grab a coffee or something let one of us know.

what a ride you are on right now \:\( So sorry to hear. talk about when it rains, it pours.

Having experienced losing a parent and planing all that stuff, its not easy task to deal with on its own...but with that other shit on top of it. wow . just try to keep a positive outlook that things will smooth out eventually.


I would just try to roll with the punches re:manwoman and not worry about that aspect right now. Your sister just lost her mom too.
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#7500225 - 01/16/14 10:41 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Senor Eduardo_82]
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but srsly, sorry for your loss \:\( very hard i can only imagine.

as for the other thing...
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#7500254 - 01/16/14 10:50 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Screamin' Type-R]
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I have no idea what just happened here, but I am really sorry about your mom. That's brutal, I can't even imagine man.
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#7500258 - 01/16/14 10:51 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Euphoricuck]
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Sorry to hear about your Mom, just deal with that for now and follow below.


 Originally Posted By: Euphoric
I would just try to roll with the punches re:manwoman and not worry about that aspect right now. Your sister just lost her mom too.

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#7500265 - 01/16/14 10:52 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Risky Business]
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 Originally Posted By: Яeesky Beeznuss
I have no idea what just happened here, but I am really sorry about your mom. That's brutal, I can't even imagine man.


Basically at the service, at the Christian church my mom went to, my sister will get A LOT of attention just based on physical appearance. They don't even know about all the threesomes and husband stealing she's been doing.

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#7500266 - 01/16/14 10:52 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: 87ZCSi]
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Oh and thanks guys. It's been a hell of a ride.
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#7500315 - 01/16/14 11:05 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: 87ZCSi]
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My condolences for your loss.
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#7500326 - 01/16/14 11:11 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: SuPeR-MaRiO]
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 Originally Posted By: SuPeR-MaRiO
My condolences for your loss.


as for the rest of the post... errrr......ummm


Edited by phoenixrage (01/16/14 11:12 AM)
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#7500408 - 01/16/14 11:32 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: phoenixrage]
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Wes, hang in there buddy. When it rains, it pours
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#7500419 - 01/16/14 11:37 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Choco 'Nuck]
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I really don't know how I could help, but if there's anything I or ANY of us can do, I'm sure we're all here for you.
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#7500510 - 01/16/14 12:06 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: 4Three]
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Sorry about your mom Wes. But errr ya about the other thing.
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#7500738 - 01/16/14 01:02 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Hatorade]
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Very sorry to hear about tough times, Wes..
One day at a time, things will get better! (They have to, ya?)
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#7500769 - 01/16/14 01:13 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: SiZ]
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SHIT MAN.

So sorry to hear about your mom, my sincere condolences. Been meaning to drop by with a case of beer.

As for your sister, yeah, I remember her VERY clearly. Her and her truck driving partner were seated right beside us at your wedding. That was... interesting. Needless to say, this has gotten more interesting!

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#7501091 - 01/16/14 02:45 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: RIC3BOY]
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87ZCSi - im so sorry for your loss and for what you are going through. BUT - if for whatever reason you are feeling you are down or depressed or doing something stupid - TALK TO US. Hell, I'd even treat ya out for a few pints to blow off steam.

keep your head up high, you will rise above this.
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#7501144 - 01/16/14 03:04 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: c2k]
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Weren't we going to have some sort of a meat? Maybe this is a good occasion. Leslie York Mills in the cold?
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#7501150 - 01/16/14 03:07 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: c2k]
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Wes, my sincerest condolences. I don't know how you're handling this but have you considered talking to someone and get everything off your chest
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#7501162 - 01/16/14 03:14 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: c2k]
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damn Wes, sorry to hear about your mom. if you have time or need to clear your head let me know if you want to go for a beer man.

as for your sister and her ughhh...yeaaaa.



keep your head up bro.


Edited by titty sprinkles (01/16/14 03:15 PM)
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#7501338 - 01/16/14 04:14 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: SuPeR-MaRiO]
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 Originally Posted By: SuPeR-MaRiO
My condolences for your loss.

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#7501409 - 01/16/14 04:55 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Wildout]
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My condolences
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#7501489 - 01/16/14 05:32 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: JEFFOS]
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sorry man

may she rip

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#7501836 - 01/16/14 09:19 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Euphoricuck]
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 Originally Posted By: Euphoric
OMFG.
dude PLEASE dont lay down on the 401. If you need to grab a coffee or something let one of us know.

what a ride you are on right now \:\( So sorry to hear. talk about when it rains, it pours.

Having experienced losing a parent and planing all that stuff, its not easy task to deal with on its own...but with that other shit on top of it. wow . just try to keep a positive outlook that things will smooth out eventually.


I would just try to roll with the punches re:manwoman and not worry about that aspect right now. Your sister just lost her mom too.


same position as the kid here. its tough to lose a parent. my condolences.
if the your sister is happy then let it be. be there for her just as you would if he stayed a man.
there will always be gawkers and people spreading gossip. the people you will want to keep in your life will be accepting.
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#7501927 - 01/16/14 10:22 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: Simon_the_Pieman]
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Sorry to hear about your mom and going through a divorce -- that's a heck of a double whammy.

As for your sister's situation, ummm -- wow; that's a heck of a curveball.
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#7501970 - 01/16/14 11:18 PM Re: How would you all react? [Re: hyper-s2k]
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Nobody gives a shit about the bimmer??? WTFOMGBBQ.

Thanks guys. I've got lots of support, no problem. What I'd need if I had 20 mins to myself is a port in a storm. The thing with my sister is complicated, you can see she's not happy (the way they snap at each other in front of family they've never met) but there's no talking to her, no point, not receptive. It's unfortunate because in her 20's she made good money and was in TO, and now you can just smell the welfare dripping from her pores. \:\( Like she's trapped.

A meet is long overdue however. Why not Pho? We all have enough money to go inside now and let's not fool ourselves this isn't a car meat.

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#7502085 - 01/17/14 06:22 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: 87ZCSi]
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Hang in there dude. Thank god you're taking all this in stride. If you can handle this, you can probably handle anything! Fuck driving. Let's go get drunk somewhere!!!
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#7502295 - 01/17/14 09:09 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: TheRealCSnapper]
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Go karting?
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#7502690 - 01/17/14 10:46 AM Re: How would you all react? [Re: RIC3BOY]
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Montanas AYCE ribs and THEN gokarting


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